A question for the shy guys?

As an introvert I can tell you, it doesn't work that way. If the girl doesn't make a big deal, by telling the 2.5 converstation to her friends or what not, its better for her to keep things easy, and keep things on the "down-low", cause telling friend=spotlight=feeling nervous= OVERALL UNCOMFORT! *sight* i just had a flashback...anyways the important thing is to make thing as simple as possible,....just you and the significant other....THAT'S ALL!...cause that's all the matter, and keep the conversations one on one...and definitely no damn double dates!!!