Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Would you forgive him a second time? I promise this is the last time I'll ask this question!?

My husband had an emotional and physical affair for 4 months with a coworker. He ended it and came clean by telling me about it 6 months ago. He said he wanted to work on our marriage. We have 3 small children. I decided to try and work on things with him because I love him, for the kids, and because I umed he must really be sorry since he disclosed the whole affair. I never suspected anything. He promised not to have anymore contact with the other woman. He said he would tell me whenever they had to talk for work. We have been in individual and marriage counseling ever since the disclosure. Things seemed to be going well given the cirstances. Three weeks ago he was laid off from his job so he longer sees the other woman. Yesterday, I found out (from the other woman who called me) that the during the few months before he lost his job he continued to talk to her regularly and NOT just about work. He admitted to this and says that nothing physical happened but that it was hard to stop talking to her when he saw her at work everyday. He says he loves me but still has feelings for her. He also says that now that he doesn't have to see her that the communication has ended once and for all. Should I give him another chance now that he's not at that job anymore?

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